
I have grown up seeing everyone getting super distraught about so many things they can’t even change; may it be the mistake of their past or the plans for their ideal life in future. Meanwhile cursing the past and panicking about the future all we have neglected is our present. We forgot the meaning of life and living. I read these lines somewhere a while back “Great lives are not super lives; they are truthful lives. Great lives are not without tears and heartbreak, uncertainty and confusion. They are not lived for approval, applause, or accolades” and it took all of my attention. Yes, we need to understand that perfection is not what we think or the way we want certain things to be or certain people to behave. Everything has to go on,the way it is and that’s its beauty. Nothing is perfect, but it should not stop you because nobody’s perfect, no life is perfect, no family is perfect, no job is perfect, no work is perfect and no situation is perfect.
All our life we run after a term “PERFECTION” that doesn’t even exist. We regret the mistakes we have made in the past and wish to go back to the times and correct them without knowing the fact that the present is being abandoned. Why? Because all these years of life, no one taught us how to live. You may have read “KEY TO A PERFECT LIFE” but you have never read a book about life. While just running after the illusions the real things have lost their charm for us. I see everyone around stressed because they are in the race to achieve something which society has set as a “DREAM GOAL” for them.
Hold on Amigo!
Don’t let the society decide what your dream life is or what you want for yourself. You are your own hero. It’s okay not to have a huge bank balance. It’s okay not to have the latest phone. It’s okay not to have the best car. It’s okay not to have a huge house. It’s okay to live the life you can easily afford. It’s all okay!
Everything is okay until you are happy and satisfied. It’s okay if the past is full of mistakes. It’s okay if you couldn’t save money. It’s okay if you are not wearing branded attire. It’s okay if you have pimples or scars on your face.
Life is not about these temporary things. It’s all okay, not to be okay. Trust yourself and your choice. Whatever has gone, was meant to be that way. Whatever you have is more than you deserve, whatever will come will be the best you can ever ask for. Whatever is destined for you, will find its way to you. Just relax! Have patience and try to make yourself comfortable with the blessings you have got. Trust me! God loves each one of us equally but He almighty blesses everyone differently. Cherish the moments you get to breath easily. We all know that nothing is perfect, But each second of happiness. Gives you the flavour of life and most of the time the ‘problem’ you think is not actually the “problem”. And there is no problem which does not have a solution. Have faith, work hard and don’t panic and start living.
Cheers! 🌸